Holmeswood Family Ministry

Guess what? God. Is. Here. And here are some ways to deepen time with God:

• God wants to hear your thoughts and feelings. Share those with God through prayer, journaling, drawing or even while walking around your neighborhood.
• When you’re feeling cabin fever or stressed out, take a few deep breaths. Count to 5 as you inhale, and count to 5 as you exhale. I have a little relaxing corner in my home where I can read, journal, workout or just meditate in silence. It’s okay to “just be still” because sometimes our best ideas and energy comes from that time. Allow yourself to breathe deeply and often.
  • Try a Breath Prayer: {Inhale a deep breath and whisper} “God of Love” then {exhale and whisper} “help me relax.” Can you get more real than that prayer? Try this breath prayer 5-10 times, or until you are feeling more present. Change up the words; 3-4 syllables for each part works well.
• Take care of your Temple. God made our bodies…what a gift! And our bodies crave comfort when life has changes and uncertainties. Instead of grabbing a comfort cupcake or bag of calm-down chips, consider swapping those for sliced apples with cinnamon or celery and hummus. I promise you’ll start to feel better and have more energy. And gulp down more water. (I’m working on this with you!)
  • And with so many places closed and get-togethers cancelled, consider having a Cooking Party! Call up or Facetime a friend and swap recipes or meal ideas. Gather your family around the kitchen, and give everyone a job. Joke about messy moments in the kitchen, and enjoy deep belly laughs. Make a casserole dish (or a simple sandwich) while chatting and have a great time together “in the kitchen.”

Miss sitting in Worship?

Oh, how I miss seeing your smiling faces…so please do me a favor and send me a photo of yourself. Email, text or post a photo of yourself/family on Facebook, and I’ll print them out and paste them in the sanctuary pews for Sunday. Haha, this could be fun! (And it helps your pastors not speak to a totally empty room!)

And be sure to check you email and visit our church Facebook page often! We have lots of exciting videos and activities coming your way. https://www.facebook.com/holmeswoodbaptist If you don’t receive emails from church, let me know.

I know times are strange right now, but we are going to get through it together! It’s all going to be okay–just stay safe, make wise choices and take care of each other through social media, phone calls and even letters. Yeah!

If you’d like to send a card or note to someone at church who lives alone, let me know! I’ll assign a pen pal to you. = ) God loves you, we love you and we are going to be alright. ~Laurel

Hi, Friends!

Wow, this has been a wild week. Last night, we sent out an all-church email with Holmeswood’s plan to keep Coronavirus out of our community (see below). Instead of increasing anxiety in an already stressful climate, our role as a church is to help your family have a plan, not a panic. Not sure how to talk to your kids and teens about Coronavirus? Check out UNICEF’s helpful quick guide.

We’d appreciate your help ensuring the health and safety of everyone. In saying that, you might have some extra time at home in the upcoming days and weeks. If you’re tired of cleaning and doing other chores, here are a few ideas to connect as a family and have some fun, too:

Faith & Fun Activities at Home – The Coronovirus Stay-cation

• Make a Family Prayer Jar, an easy way to remember to talk to God about our feelings and stuff happening in our family’s life.
• Learn “Christo Me Ama” (Jesus Loves Me in Spanish); one verse of this is the perfect length to sing while washing your hands with soap and warm water!
• Toddlers/Preschoolers: Learn some Bible verses together using these fun robot cards.
• Kids/Youth: Learn the books of the Bible using Legos.
• Youth/College: Learn more about SSP and San Diego for our upcoming Mission Trip meeting! (April 5)
• How about some Bible games? Or just a fun obstacle course around the house?
• And, on a rainy day or sleepy night at home, there are some great films and TV shows on Netflix that talk about faith and the Bible. There are options for all ages. Here are a few notables for littles:

As we stay alert and prepared, know that God the Creator of the Universe is present with you (see this week’s Let It Rain post to read more). Share your thoughts, feelings and ventings with God. You are loved.

~Laurel

Well, have you been a Trenta lately? (see last week’s post for clarity)

God doesn’t want us to live in a constant state of struggle…Jesus never said life would be easy; however, Joy is mentioned quite a bit in the Bible…around 172 times. And, keeping that in mind, we turn to another aspect…rain.

Rain is Surprising.

When I woke up this morning to take my dog, Sam, outside, it was POURING. Sam does not like rain, and he tried to scurry back into the house as the rain poured down in buckets on us and around us. Honestly, I was super surprised by the amount or rain coming down–I had slept through the quiet, peaceful night without even noticing the raindrops hitting my roof and the street outside. And that rain made it’s presence known, soaking everything! Now sometimes “rain comes” figuratively through disasters like a tornado in Nashville or a fire in an apartment building of beloved church members and others. Other times it is a slow sprinkle that turns into a storm with a longtime illness or changing relationship. God is here, even when rain surprises us.

Rain is Unavoidable.

Sometimes (okay, Always) life happens. Things change, and we look up to God through wide eyes or tears and say, “Why, God!?” If the things happening are really exciting, we might say, “Wow, God!” Either way, the rain comes down. Changes happen, and we have an option to look to God for guidance, or we can curl up in a ball and wish we could avoid change by staying in a cave by ourselves for 49.2 years. (Hint: the first option is better. Caves are smelly.)

Rain reminds us of God’s Promise.

God’s promise through the Lenten season and every other day of the year is, “I am here with you!” Here are just a few examples of God’s presence with us in the rain:

• Joshua 1:9 – God is with you wherever you go. Don’t be afraid or discouraged; instead, lean on God’s strength and courage. Example: Moses
• Isaiah 54:6-8 – In God’s everlasting love, God has compassion (compassion=empathy in action) on you.
• Ezekiel 34:26 – My favorite major prophet mentions God making his people and the region a blessing. God will send down the showers, showers of blessings. What an awesome image!

While rain can evoke feelings of full joy, buckets of sorrow, or anything in-between, I think it’s grand for us to turn to wisdom through Scripture and through brilliant artists that paint the picture well. I hope this song is a blessing for you, as it has been for me:

https://youtu.be/aIlw7BInVw0

As you and I feel the rain on our faces, let us remember God’s unwavering presence with us in times of uncertainty. As Pastor David mentioned in his benediction yesterday in Worship, “No one knows what is going to happen this coming week. Except we go with confidence knowing that the Christ is always beside us and will never leave us. So, no matter where this week’s journey takes you, you do so going alongside the One who is the fullness of life, who is the abundance of grace.” Amen.

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Coming Up…

March – Lenten Season of the Senses

15th: SEE-9:00 am Worship; BFG following

• Check out The Faces of Beloved Community, a CBF Photography exhibit of 40 photos of field personnel (missionaries) around the world! They’ll line our hallways.

22nd: TOUCH-9:00 am Worship; BFG following

29th: SMELL-9:00 am Worship; BFG following

• Youth host Meet & Greet! (youth and their families bring a tray of cookies, muffins or fruit to share with the congregation today)

Let it rain…God is with each of us, always loving and always protecting. And you are loved.

~Laurel

Pancakes…

“There are difficulties in everything except eating pancakes.” –Charles Spurgeon

Hello! So Shrove Tuesday (Mardi Gras) is tomorrow,  and it’s a church tradition to eat pancakes this day (yummm). We get the “fats” out of the house like butter and oil, and the idea is that we simplify and focus on Jesus’ incredible love and sacrifice for us–the Lenten Season.

Lent, Noah and Moses, oh my!

Lent is really special, and it starts on Wednesday, March 26 with Ash Wednesday. Just like Jesus fasted for 40 days (& Noah and Moses did stuff for 40 days and 40 years), we spend 40 days (6 1/2 weeks–Sundays don’t count in the 40 days) praying and focusing.

Some choose to “give up” something and replace that time or energy (like not watching TV or not drinking coffee) with time in prayer, reading the Bible and generally focusing on getting closer to God. It’s a good idea, if you choose to “replace” something in your life with Jesus for the next 40 days of Lent. Talk to your family or friends about your plan. They can be encouragers during this time.

Lent starts on Wednesday, and let’s start our special focus on Jesus by worshiping together at church, the annual Ash Wednesday service. Pastor Allen burns the palms from last year’s Palm Sunday and mixes the ashes with olive oil to make a paste. Pretty neat, right?

 

Coming Up:

Wednesday, February 26: Ash Wednesday Worship at 6:30pm in the Sanctuary

Sunday, March 1: Worship at 9:00am, BFGs (small groups) at 10:15am

• San Diego Mission Team Meeting #1 (REQUIRED), 11:30am-1:30pm in Youth Room (lunch provided)

Sunday, March 8: Worship at 9:00am, BFGs (small groups) at 10:15am

• Family Ministry Team Meeting, 11:30am in Conference Room #1

Sunday, March 15: Worship at 9:00am, BFGs (small groups) at 10:15am

• Deacon Council, 11:30am in the Parlor

Sunday, March 22: Worship at 9:00am, BFGs (small groups) at 10:15am

Sunday, March 29: Worship at 9:00am, BFGs (small groups) at 10:15am

• The Youth host Meet & Greet! (every youth family: please bring a batch of cookies, muffins or a bowl of fruit to share)

No matter what you decide to change in your daily behavior to focus more on Jesus, be sure and prioritize this change for 40 days–Jesus certainly deserves our focus!  = )

Have an awesome week! Go eat some pancakes. 😀☕️

Laurel